Moms play an important role in their children’s lives, no doubt about it, but when the mother is the mother of a bride, the relationship between mother and daughter is even more special. 

Many brides planning their wedding quickly learn what a delicate landmine they must navigate as they try to balance making decisions for their wedding while keeping good ole’ Mom happy. Yes, there are horror stories of epic battles between brides and their mothers, some of which would make for an interesting documentary on the History channel. Sometimes, the bride is being unreasonable, other times, Mom is acting nuts (Moms Gone Wild video?). 

But, truth be told, other than a few possible disagreements here and there, most brides and their mothers enjoy a special experience throughout the course of wedding planning and the wedding itself. Because of that, Adorn Brides would like to offer some suggestions for brides in ways to honor mom this Mother’s Day.

Plan a weekend getaway. Regardless of where you are in the planning process, Mom is bound to cherish any alone time with her daughter before the big day. With a whole weekend together, you’ll have time to get your Mom’s thoughts on your wedding plans and make her feel like she was involved in the decision making process, an important detail that will strengthen your relationship throughout your planning.

Shop with Mom . You aren’t the only one who has had dreams for your wedding day, Mom has dreamed of this day since you were born.  What better gift for Mother’s Day than to shop together for your wedding dress? You can always shop more later, if need be. Be sure to check out our bridal jewelry to complete your look.

Shop for Mom.   Your wedding day is a big day for Mom too. Spend your time together shopping for what Mom will need to wear for your wedding. Did we mention we rent jewelry for brides and their party?

Lunch with Mom.  With a reception to plan and a caterer that’s needed, take Mom out to lunch as you sample the goods.  Plan a month’s worth of “Lunches with Mom” as you do your research together. Two palates are better than one.

Photo album. Surprise your mom with a “Life with Mom” mini photo album. Include photos of you and your mom or family at different stages throughout your life to document your journey together in one place.  Follow it up with a mini wedding album for your Mom that includes several photos that would be of great importance to her – you dancing with your Dad, photos of her and your family on your wedding day, etc. 

Regardless of what you decide to do for your Mom this Mother’s Day, be sure to include a card that says thanks, for nothing would have been possible without her. Besides, nothing makes Mom weep like a good card.